Category Archives: A Queer Was Here

Making Workplaces More Trans Inclusive (Part One)

New episode of A Queer Was Here published!

Today’s episode is the first part of a guide on making workplaces more trans-inclusive. It discusses trans healthcare, bathroom policies, dress codes, educational modules, and “do” and “don’t”s for questions you might want to ask trans folks. Part Two will be released July 1, 2017.

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Understanding Dysphoria

New episode of A Queer Was Here published!

“Understanding Dysphoria” discusses dysphoria through a story, a poem, and a link, with the goal of making the feeling more understandable to those who do not experience it themselves.

Link: Amy Dentata’s article on dysphoria

Link: WPATH Standards of Care, V7 (PDF)

Link: Buzzfeed article about dealing with dysphoria

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Eight Things Coming Out Has Taught Me (Part Two)

New episode of A Queer Was Here published!

As a polyamorous grayromantic pansexual genderqueer gentleman with a large social circle, I’ve come out of more closets than most. As a public speaker and trans educator, many of those coming-out experiences have been on a stage. Whether I’m coming out to a crowd of strangers or one-on-one with a person I’ve known my whole life, though, every “coming out” has taught me something.

This episode I discuss number five through eight of the most important lessons I’ve learned from coming out.

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Eight Things Coming Out Has Taught Me (Part One)

New episode of A Queer Was Here published!

As a polyamorous grayromantic pansexual genderqueer gentleman with a large social circle, I’ve come out of more closets than most. As a public speaker and trans educator, many of those coming-out experiences have been on a stage. Whether I’m coming out to a crowd of strangers or one-on-one with a person I’ve known my whole life, though, every “coming out” has taught me something.

This episode I discuss four of the eight most important lessons I’ve learned from coming out. Part Two will be released January 15.

To find out more about me and the other things I do, go here.

Types of Polyamory

New episode of A Queer Was Here published!

“Types of Polyamory” discusses the meaning of polyamory, busts the “no jealousy” myth, and discusses eight common types of polyamory.

Find the articles mentioned in the episode below:

The Short Instructional Manifesto for Relationship Anarchy

Relationship Anarchy Takes the Judgement Out of Love

Find the books mentioned in the episode below:

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships